There are many websites that can help you learn more about herpes.  Here are just a few.
herpes.com
herpes.org
rerpes-foundation.org
herpesalliance.org (a global site w good info)
cdc.gov
herpesresourcecenter.com
herpesite.org
peoplewithherpes.com
yoshi2me.com
westoverclinic.com  (The Herpes Handbook - info on emotional aspects of herpes)

The definitive book on understanding herpes is 
Managing Herpes:  Living and Loving with HSV
Charles Ebel & Ana Wald, MD; paperback 2007

Another book is:
Understand Herpes 
Lawrence R. Stanberry, hardback, August 2006